Tuesday 25 February 2014

A Gay Bashing

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There is a strong case for this post/poem being on my other (general) poetry blog but it will appear here first, not least because I know of at least one closet gay reader who has participated in an attack on a gay man because he did not want to lose face with his so-called 'friends'.

Now, it is one of the many tragedies of modern life that there are (still) people and groups of people that are so screwed up as to want to see an gay or transgender person hurt, even dead.

Politics, religion, a common humanity…all have their part to play in getting the message across to certain pockets of society that gay and transgender folks are just ordinary people who want to be left to go about their daily lives in peace. How we like sex and with whom is our own business.

Does a perspective on how (or even if) we like sex loom large in our appreciation of society as a whole? Did I hear you answer, no? So why should it matter if a person is gay?

Gay people are not irreligious monsters, although some religions would (still) make us outcasts…or worse.

It is also a myth that gay people are paedophiles. Historically, the vast majority of paedophiles are screwed up heterosexuals.

So come on, you holier-than-thou brigade and you others too busy playing lip service to political correctness to see the wood for trees…give us gay people (among others, worldwide) a chance to prove our worth, yeah?

What’s that? Gay people have never had it so good, did you say?

In 76 countries, gay relationships are still a criminal offence and punishable by death in six. 

As with all forms of prejudice, the expression it takes is likely to turn on the socio-cultural-religious/ home-school-work environment in which people live…in a century that still has one hell of a lot to learn about love, peace, and a common humanity.

Gay bashing is not the only form of hate crime of course; none should be tolerated by decent people, local communities or countries worldwide.

 A GAY BASHING 

Found him late at night, bleeding 
in a street gutter, near dead

His fine features an ugly sight, 
white shirt turning red...
Called an ambulance, did all I could
to comfort, help ease his pain,
but it seemed a long time coming,
and he but barely breathing
as I struggled to speak, anxious
he stay awake, so scared 
for him that he close his eyes
never to hear a human voice again,
feel its warmth spread over him 
like my overcoat, not yells of abuse
chasing him down centuries,
spilling their ignorance and hate 
on streets much like this one
with more horrendous tales to relate
for any who care to listen

A light rain began to fall like tears
(a God of Love empathising?)

I, too, wept that he might even die
believing the world against him
and siding with its sick homophobes
even though a part of me knew
it was already too late - for them
as for him - given a world 
barely even paying lip service 
to LGBT folks in parts,
hearts sporting logos set in tablets
of stone, fronting public roles
that embrace liberality and equality
while inwardly egging on
the sheer bestiality of any criminality 
seen as justified wherever LGBT
spells SCUM, deserving no less,
no matter if (supposedly) we all of us
share a common humanity

Left near drowning  in a sea of sirens, 
we'll yet draw strength from straws

Copyright R. N. Taber 2005; 2019

[Note: A much earlier version of this poem appears in  A Feeling for the Quickness of Time 
by R. N. Taber, Assembly Books, 2005.]


Monday 24 February 2014

Dancing the Night Away


I remember a boyfriend’s parents once telling him years ago that I had bewitched him, and it wasn’t even Halloween! They said I had been sent by the Devil to tempt him into evil ways...! How can intelligent (?) people believe such rubbish?

We stayed friends long after we split up, but he was never reconciled with his family. Yet, he has lived very happily with the same partner for the best part of twenty years now and his partner’s family has no problem with their relationship.

Oh, but human nature can be a monster at times! It can take a while for us to find the strength of character and conviction to venture out and take it on.  Some of us (like me) take encouragement, guidance and fortitude in nature where other socio-cultural-religious so-called ‘role models’ fail us.

Whatever form love takes, any ‘temptation’ is but to share its beauty and spirituality with another person, and no one should be penalized let alone ostracized for giving in to that. Yet, that is exactly what (still) happens in various parts of the world. Some people not only never learn from the harsher lessons of history, but seem intent upon perpetuating them. We can but take them on and hope to educate them into a more enlightened sense of humanity.

This poem is a villanelle.

DANCING THE NIGHT AWAY

Shadows dancing on my lawn,
(open window to see better);
a misty-eyed moon looking on

Sense change about to happen,
(reshaping my life forever);
shadows dancing on my lawn

Silhouettes, men and women
(looking so right together);
a misty-eyed moon looking on

Putting aside threats unspoken
(reassured by Earth Mother);
shadows dancing on my lawn

Witness to ties as yet unbroken
(by culture, creed or colour);
a misty-eyed moon looking on

No sign of dancers moving on,
(nor can I resist any longer);
shadows dancing on the lawn,
a misty eyed moon looking on

Copyright R, N. Taber 2009

Saturday 22 February 2014

Pink Clouds, Sunset on a Gay Love Affair

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[Update June 7 2018: The photo below was recently taken in Grays, Essex, by my close friend Graham Collett, a graphic designer by profession who also shoots the videos for my You Tube channel.( https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSdhLgPQOsng2Xz8n5m0ViQ ) I thought those of you who have enjoyed his videos might also enjoy this lovely sunset over the Thames estuary.]

[Image taken from the Internet]
Meanwhile...

Sexuality has to be in the genes or how else can we explain gay people from all socio-cultural-religious persuasions worldwide? Given then that sexual identity is a natural consequence of birth, where else to look for inspiration than to the natural world?

Now, several readers have been in touch to say they share my passion for clouds so...

Every sunset, I journey among pink clouds into bitter-sweet realms of memory and wishful thinking.  

This poem is a villanelle.

PINK CLOUDS, SUNSET ON A GAY LOVE AFFAIR

Two men sharing love's sweet kiss,
nor less so two women…
pink clouds, they are made of this

Our love, it brings me to such bliss
as I’d never known;
two men sharing love's sweet kiss

Come a time as may have me miss
your heat, our passion…
pink clouds, they are made of this

We ask of society but to make peace
with us, leave us alone;
two men sharing love's sweet kiss

Tears for the worst in world societies
(bigotry, hate, persecution);
pink clouds, they are made of this

No nemeses of gay love shall deny us
a bird’s eye view of heaven;
two men sharing love’s sweet kiss;
pink clouds, they are made of this

Copyright R. N. Taber 2005; 2019

[Note: An earlier version of this villanelle appears in A Feeling for the Quickness of Time by R. N. Taber, Assembly Books, 2005]