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Sunday, 13 October 2019

N-A-T-U-R-E, Imaging Eternity and Transcending Known Parameters

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R._N._Taber

This poem first appeared on my general poetry blog in November 2016; any readers interested can access its archives - listed on the right of any blog page - for the original post. Readers who follow both blogs have asked for a new poem. Well, I am working on one so please bear with me. I am very unwell at the moment and finding it hard to collect my thoughts. In the meantime, I hope the many readers that feedback suggests only read one or the other will enjoy the poem. (I am often asked why I post a poem on one blog and not the other or both, but even a blogger has to make choices; a poem is a poem is a poem, readers assure me, and I agree, yet relatively few readers visit both blogs ...)

We often overlook the simpler pleasures of life in our enthusiasm for the more exotic or whatever is most likely to impress family, peers and neighbours. A friend once commented, ‘We never know long we’ve got so all the more reason to cram in as much as we can while we can.’ I get that, but not everyone is a crammer; we all want different things from life and just because someone does not appear to have a lot to show for his or her life doesn’t mean they have not live it, in their own way and time, to the full.

Now, every so often, someone asks me why I often write about death. Well, as a positive thinker, I try to be as positive about the inevitability of death as I do about making the most of each day as it comes, no matter what it may bring. Besides, I have been living with prostate cancer for nearly six years now so shying away from death is not an option. Not that I have any intention of letting the Grim Reaper have his way with me just yet! (Better to be positive, surely?)

It has been suggested by those who do not know me very well that I should ‘find God’ and therefore need have no fear of death. They mean well, of course, but I have never been able to relate to any religion or idea of a personified ‘God’. Nor am I am an atheist, though, but more of an agnostic in as much as I do believe in a sense of spirituality that enhances our customised vision of the world; outwardly and inwardly. However, as regular readers well know, I take that sense of spirituality from nature, not religion. They will also be aware that I believe in a posthumous consciousness, the power of any human spirit to endure within the hearts and minds of anyone affected by it; a continuum, in fact, for as long as human beings walk the earth and affect the lives of others - to a greater or lesser extent - in everything we say and do.

Oh, and why, too, do I have a particular fondness for robins? Well, not least because they are survivors, known to see out the worst winters if only to sing in another spring, reminding us all that, of all nature’s gifts, hope has to be among the best on offer. (And should hope die in some bleak winter of the heart? Well, as spring follows winter so, too, perhaps might we…?) 

Such is a sense of spirituality as I see it or if you prefer, the Landscape of Imagination from which so much of my poetry takes its inspiration, both mutually inclusive in my view; a landscape open of course to us all, pf course, whatever our ethnicity, gender or sexuality.

N-A-T-U-R-E, IMAGING ETERNITY AND TRANSCENDING KNOWN PARAMETERS

No one ever lays flowers,
comes even to rework old times,
but an old tree reads poems
that passes for a fitting eulogy,
and a robin sings

No memorial marks the spot,
none have cause to pause this way,
but shadows make a play
for life at Apollo’s pleasure,
and seeds grow

Each of four winds has a say
in how the tree needs must recite;
leafy branches acting out
rhythm, rhyme, blank verse,
(all weathers)

Mark how seasons play a part,
anticipating nature’s every mood,
overseeing a predilection
for happy-sad shades of green,
amber, red and mould

No let-up by day or night,
the tree passing on its every nuance
of sight and sound to each man,
woman and child with any feeling
for the natural world

Nature may well see us through
time’s ever-changing kaleidoscope,
yet humanity has far more say
than any leaves in what patterns
it may shape us…?

Ah, but such is human nature,
it may yet branch out on leafy whim
to make, break, let rise or fall
such passions of the human heart
as a robin sings
  
Roger N. Taber (2016)

Saturday, 2 October 2010

Sexuality, Life Force

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R._N._Taber

From time to time, teachers ask me if they can use one of my poems to help kick-start a debate on contemporary issues; it might be on street crime, bullying, political and/or religious issues, whatever. Occasionally, I am asked to send a selection of my poems on a gay theme. Only recently, a teacher reported back to say how today’s poem and another (Ode To A School Cap) ‘inspired a very lively debate on sexuality and gay issues.’ I was thrilled. It was especially nice for me as the teachers adds, ‘A few days later two pupils came up to me on separate occasions to say they had borrowed one of your collections from the local public library.’

Regular readers will know I believe very strongly that discussing gay issues in schools (including Faith Scgools) and colleges is the best if not the only way to put down all the misleading, outdated and often offensive stereotypes that continue to attach themselves to gay men and women in the minds of the less enlightened among us, especially in the context of world cultures /religions. While gay issues are all but ignored in schools, many gay young people will continue to resist and suppress an awakening sexuality while many heterosexual young people (especially boys) will grow up in an atmosphere that, by default, not only condones and but actively encourages homophobia.

We are living in the 21st century, for goodness sake!  Yes, gay and transgender people are better off than when I was at school, but something needs to be done NOW about a rising tide of homophobia and other socio-cultural-religious prejudices across the world and schools should not shy away from placing themselves in the front line where educating the less enlightened among the heterosexual majority is concerned.


SEXUALITY, LIFE FORCE

Once, I met a young man by a river
under a leafy awning of willow;
in a summer’s heat I could but shiver
nor would my lips  frame a ‘hello’

We glimpsed a kingfisher on fair wing,
a flash of breast. colour of his eyes;
in one body. we watched its descending,
as if a blessing on nature’s surprise

We found a voice and let it lay us down,
river anxious we should hear a story
about desire and sex, seeds for sowing
and nurturing as inspire nature’s glory

Come twilight, we went our separate ways,
glimpses of gay love, a life force always

Copyright R. N. Taber 2007; 2010

[Note: An earlier version of this poem appears in Accomplices To Illusion by R. N. Taber, Assembly Books, 2007.]